Intentional steps for habit change and managing stress with Shelley Fourney

Intentional Steps for Stress Management and Habit Change with Shelley Fourney

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edHave you ever seen a therapist or maybe you’ve wanted to see a therapist and you haven’t? Well, in today’s episode, you are going to visit with Shelly Fourney, and she is a licensed therapist who specializes in solution focus brief therapy.   Now, I’m not gonna promise that you’re going to have all the tools you need to navigate whatever stress is going on in your life, but if you’re trying to make a habit change or if you just need a starting place to take those first small steps, you’re going to love this interview.

 I’m Dr.Vickie Petz Kasper. If you’re ready to take control of your health, you’re in the right  place. Whether you’re focused on prevention or you’re trying to manage a condition. I’ll give you practical steps to start your own journey toward better health because healthy looks great on you.  

Shelley is a licensed clinical social worker who practices as an individual therapist. Her favorite thing to dois help people move forward, one little baby step at a time, not big steps.

When people try to manage stress, they tend to plan for the next six months, but Shelley encourages them to think about what needs to happen to get through today. She asks questions to guide people to think about what works for them.

She says, ” I’m not an expert on your life, but you are. My job is to ask you good questions help you facilitate what it is you want.” 

What works for one person, doesn’t necessarily work for another. You are the expert on you, so if someone tells you what you should do about stress, anxiety, sleep and depression, it often doesn’t work. 

You don’t need 20 tips, you need a solution that works for you. That’s what I teach in my sleep course. 

If someone tells you to change a habit, like quit smoking, Shelley asks why it matters to them, not the doctor. Because it has to be important, or they won’t be successful. 

Shelley uses Solution Focus Brief therapy. Her approach is to ask her clients, “What do you want?” then she helps them move forward. 

In particularly stressful situations where there’s been a loss she tries to help them get through minute by minute, or a week at at time. It’s effective and rewarding. 

She recommends starting with what is working in your life. We all have routines that help us stop and head back in the direction we want to do. 

It’s not a quick fix, but it can impact your day using tiny steps. 

For someone deep in grief, it might mean getting through the next hour, by accomplishing basic things, like eating and drinking. Shelley views her role as validating the next tiny step they’ve decided to take. 

She ask really good questions and people come up with solutions and how to change things in their lives. She listens and helps them find things in their life that will work for them. 

When it comes to spinning thoughts, which is a form of feeling anxious, she recommends practicing gratefulness. You can’t be anxious and grateful at the same time.

She encourages people to have compassion and grace for themselves. Instead of ruminating, think of it as an opportunity to learn. 

 The hand to heart technique can be used to interrupt spinning thoughts, by simply placing your hand on your shoulder. The act of touching tells our nervous system we are safe and can automatically calm your mind. 

It feels weird at first, but what will you accomplish by negatively talking to yourself? It works.

Set goals that can be pretty easily achieved. Then celebrate small wins. People often set goals that are too big and hard to achieve. Instead, figure out some first steps. If you want to exercise, decide what time of day and what you are going to wear. Pare it down to increase success rather than setting a lofty goal and failing. It’s not about where you’d like to be, we are working on that. But what is it for today or this week? Baby steps in the right direction leads to more success.

Form a visual picture of where you’d like to be. What does happy look like to you?

Mental health is often like physical health. One thing causes another thing to be worse, spinning in a vicious cycle. Shelley would prescribe exercise, healthy eating and journaling for all of her clients.

Her practice is called Intentional Steps. Visit her website: www.intentionalsteps.us
Go follow Shelley Fourney, Intentional Steps on Facebook and Instagram. She posts really helpful videos. 

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The information contained in this podcast is for educational purposes only and is not considered to be a substitute for medical advice. You should continue to follow up with your physician or health care provider and take medication as prescribed. Though the information in this podcast is evidence based, new research may develop and recommendations may change.

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 I’m Dr.Vickie Petz Kasper. If you’re ready to take control of your health, you’re in the right  place. Whether you’re focused on prevention or you’re trying to manage a condition. I’ll give you practical steps to start your own journey toward better health because healthy looks great on you. 

Episode 164. Why do my joints hurt?  When I sit for a while the urge to groan when I stand up comes pretty naturally and I’m really trying hard to fight it, but I’ve put  quite a bit of strain on my joints over the years, and I’m not alone. One in five adults have some form of arthritis.

Back in the day, old people called it rheumatism. I haven’t heard that term in a while, but now I am old people. But rheumatism is used synonymously with arthritis. It’s a catchall term and it doesn’t necessarily refer to rheumatoid arthritis. And listen, there are over 100 different types of arthritis, but today we’re only going to focus on osteoarthritis because it’s by far the most common affecting over 32 million people in the United States. 

And the prevalence is increasing, making it the third most common disease that is going upward behind high blood pressure and dementia. Grandpa can tell it’s going to rain because his rheumatism is acting up, and in fact, damp weather can make arthritis pain flare,  but it’s more than just aches and pains. Osteoarthritis is serious. In fact, it’s the leading cause of disability in the United States. It’s also expensive. The price tag is reported to be over $150 billion a year. Some of that is lost wages and some is because of joint replacement, and it is important to see a doctor and have your pain evaluated.  

Let’s go to mini medical school and learn about joints. No, not that kind of joint. Although CBD oil and marijuana have been studied for joint pain and they are effective – every bit as effective as placebo, that  smells like weed. Go figure. But I meant the articulation between bones and other structures that allow us to move. Now that I think about it, the word joint can refer to your banking account, something you smoke, a fastener to hold the roof on your house, or in this case, a place where bones meet.

So let’s look at all the players that gather in this meeting place besides bones. You’ve got ligaments and tendons that hold the joint together, and both of these are strong bands of connective tissue. The ligaments connect bone to bone. And that supports and limits movement while tendons connect muscle to bone and that controls movement.

You’ve also got cartilage that covers the surface where two or more bones meet and that’s designed to reduce friction. You know when two or more are gathered, there’s always friction, so you need something to smooth things out. Another structure that helps reduce friction is a fluid filled sac called the bursa, and this is filled with a thick, clear, sticky fluid called synovial fluid that is secreted by the synovial membrane and that lines the joint and seals it into a capsule.

And there are lots of different types of joints besides the ones I mentioned earlier. Some of them move in just one direction, like your elbow, and those are called hinge joints. Others allow rotation like your neck. That’s called a pivot joint. Shoulders and hips are the ball and socket joints to allow movement in several directions. And the wrist is similar, but without pivots, so it’s called an ellipsoidal joint.

Okay. Now you’ve completed orthopedics 101. Oh, wait. Since we’re discussing osteoarthritis today, you probably need to know that osteo means bone. And you’ve probably heard people say that they had a knee replacement because it was bone on bone. Well, osteoarthritis occurs when the cartilage is gone, and it’s a gradual process that occurs over many years usually.  

You probably know that the biggest risk factor for osteoarthritis is age. But listen, it’s not a normal part of aging due to wear and tear, though clearly it can develop where there’s been a prior injury. It’s hard to think about it when you’re young and doing back handsprings or shooting hoops or making tackles, but often those old injuries do eventually catch up with you.

But, even without an injury, repetitive occupational or avocational activities can leave their mark. But get this, being sedentary does its own damage.

Does that mean that runners are destined to ruin their knees? Actually no. Even though they’re asking a lot from that three to five millimeter layer of cartilage, genetics plays a role too. So choose your parents very wisely. But even if your parents have osteoarthritis, it doesn’t mean that you will, because lifestyle is a huge factor. And since I’m here to talk to you about lifestyle medicine. Let’s talk about the things you can control, and we’re mostly going to focus on two pillars of lifestyle medicine, and that’s physical fitness and diet. 

If you have joint pain, you’ve got to keep moving because if you stop, you might not be able to start again. Being fit helps with pain and stiffness. It improves your joint mobility, and all of that helps with quality of life, and mood. But here’s the deal. Your skeletal system consists of joints, bones, and muscles.

So if people with arthritis don’t maintain that musculoskeletal strength, it leads to a whole cascade of events.  Weaker muscles leads to less balance that can result in a decline in function, which leads to less stability and that can result in falls with injuries like brain trauma and hip fractures.

In fact, 95% of hip fractures are caused by falls, and falls are the leading cause of disability and death in seniors and exercise helps prevent falls. Not only does it keep you stronger, it boosts your confidence because oddly enough, people who are afraid of falling actually fall more than the less cautious people.

Now, I’m not telling you to be reckless, but I am suggesting that you exercise. And get this strengthening muscles even reduces joint pain. And if you have arthritis, one of the best exercises is walking.

Tai Chi is also recommended, and I’ve visited China before and it’s very common to see elderly people. I’m talking about really elderly people gathered in outdoor spaces participating in this ancient martial art. It involves slow, continuous movement that is specifically tailored to improve strength and balance. But if you currently don’t have access to a park in China, then maybe you could find a YouTube video and even better find a friend and a park nearby  and use a YouTube video. 

And if you have access to a swimming pool. Oh, swimming is such an excellent exercise for people with arthritis.  But whatever you do, don’t do nothing. Keep moving. Park in that spot that’s furthest from the door. Don’t ever drive to the mailbox. Find something you enjoy and keep moving.

Inactivity is the very worst thing you can do if your joints hurt. Now, of course, you should consult your doctor or healthcare provider first. And I’m not talking about joint pain from an acute injury. I’m talking about old fashioned aches and pains. Any joint in the body can be affected, but the most common ones are knees, hands and hips.

Check, check, check. Actually, my knees are pretty good, but I definitely have hip pain and intermittently pain in my hands.  But guess what? It is not from cracking my knuckles. That’s a myth. Osteoarthritis is referred to as wear and tear arthritis, and that makes sense. I delivered a lot of babies with these hands and did a lot of surgeries, and probably gymnastics took a toll on my hip as well.

But listen, you don’t have to abuse your joints to get osteoarthritis. You can also get it from neglect. Being sedentary increases your risk for… you name it. So if you sit all day, set your watch and at least get up and move around every hour. So we’ve covered age, previous injury, repetitive motion overuse, and inactivity as risk factors for osteoarthritis.

But you wanna know what else puts a lot of strain on your joints.  Obesity. In fact, weight loss can really help with osteoarthritis, especially of the knees, if only it were that simple. But get this, losing one pound takes four pounds of pressure off your knees. 

There are lots of different treatments from ointments to over-the-counter pain relievers, prescription medications physical therapy and surgery.  But sometimes you can’t fix joint pain and you have to focus on managing it instead of trying to cure it. Whatever you do, take care of your body by being fit, active and maintaining a healthy weight, which by the way depends way more on diet than exercise  and eating a joint friendly diet.  So what kind of diet should you eat for arthritis? You know, there’s the DASH diet for high blood pressure and the MIND diet for cognitive health, the Mediterranean diet for heart health.

But is there a diet for joint health? Not specifically, but all of the above diets have some things in common. They reduce inflammation and they promote whole unprocessed foods and avoiding foods that make inflammation worse.  You know those that are easy to grab and eat.

You do need protein for your joints, but don’t fall into the trap of buying packaged food that touts 30 grams of protein on the front label. My mom kept a little carton of a protein drink that her friends had recommended because it had 30 grams of protein.  I reminded her don’t pay attention to the front of the package. It’s just marketing. Turn it over and read the nutrition label. I really think you should go back and listen to my episode on this. It’s one of my favorites, and I put a link in the show notes.  

But if you eat a well-balanced diet, you don’t need more protein. Now, I might argue that if you get your protein from meat and dairy. You need better protein.  Things like whole grains, soy products, beans, legumes, lentils, nuts and seeds. And did you know that fruits and vegetables contain protein? Plus they have fiber, which is crucial for weight loss and a healthy gut. And they don’t contain bad fat and cholesterol.

If you want to know more about growing your own protein, listen to my interview with Jill Mc Sheehy on her podcast, the Beginner’s Gardener.  And she has a follow-up episode on how to actually grow that stuff in your garden. So if you’re into gardening, this is a don’t miss episode. And yes, there’s a link in the show notes.  

Also, certain spices like garlic and turmeric may help with inflammation and joint pain, but please just add them to your food. I know, I know taking a supplement seems so much easier, but it’s not better. Green tea and coffee also have some anti-inflammatory properties, so drink up. But only in the morning, so it doesn’t interfere with your sleep.

And even though we’re focusing on diet and fitness today, poor sleep, loneliness and stress all contribute to chronic inflammation. And of course, smoking is not good for your joints either.

Look, inflammation is a normal process in your body designed to help your body heal, but chronic inflammation is terrible for your body. Plants contain phytochemicals that lower inflammation like antioxidants, fiber polyphenols, and Omega-3 fatty acids and the Mediterranean diet and the dash diet. Also focus on whole foods that contain these, and it’s great for your heart too. Use unprocessed olive oil when you cook and think variety.

Focus on adding more plants and more colors to your diet. It, but the standard American diet is really the complete opposite. It’s pro-inflammatory things like sugar, which can hide in so many places like protein drinks. In fact, that carton that my mom gave me contained a ton of refined sugar, and that’s what we’re talking about, refined sugar, not whole fruits, fried foods, saturated fats, and dairy and meat – especially processed meats and lunch meats. That includes bacon, but it also includes deli turkey, cheeses, and most oils, which are in mayonnaises and salad dressings. Fast foods, processed snacks, donuts, pizza, french fries. Listen, if you go to the grocery store and buy something and you have to fight that little plastic bag to get it open to put your produce in there, it’s probably good for you. But if you just pull it off the shelf and it’s in a box or a package. Beware and at least turn it over and read the nutrition label and ignore the front. And don’t fall for marketing. 

Processed carbohydrates and refined greens are found in breads, pastries cakes, pasta, cookies, crackers, and energy bars. You know, they’re just cookies in disguise.  Did I just describe your pantry? Hmm? Let me add canned soups, which are extraordinarily high in sodium. And all things that contain MSG and artificial sweeteners like aspartame can also worsen inflammation as well as alcohol.

What about gluten?  I probably need to do a whole episode to discuss that, but gluten is found in processed grains as well as whole grains, and some people do have a sensitivity. I believe most people need whole grains in their diet, and yes, there are some that do not contain gluten, but be smart about your choices. There are lots of packaged foods that shout gluten free on the front, and they’re just gluten-free junk food.

What I suggest instead is pay attention to the connection between your diet and your joints. For me, it’s chips and cheese dip that make my joints hurt worse. Maybe it’s the cheese with all that saturated fat, all that salt or the bad oils that they’re cooked in. But chips and cheese dip are not whole unprocessed foods. They aren’t healthy for me or you, and there’s a price to pay for eating them.

So if you do figure out something that makes your joints hurt worse, eliminate that from your diet and see if it helps.  The bottom line is that plants are good for your joints and they’re good for your health and healthy. Looks great on you. 

  LINKS:

Grow Your Own Protein: The Beginner’s Garden Podcast

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Cholesterol: Good vs. Bad

You’ve gone to the doctor and had your cholesterol checked, but what do all those numbers mean? And is there anything you can do to lower your cholesterol without medications? I’m so glad you asked. 

I’m Dr.Vickie Petz Kasper. If you’re ready to take control of your health, you’re in the right  place. Whether you’re focused on prevention or you’re trying to manage a condition. I’ll give you practical steps to start your own journey toward better health because healthy looks great on you.

 This is episode 163. Cholesterol, the Good versus the Bad.

When I was about 26 years old, I had my cholesterol checked for the first time. Imagine my surprise when the number was 256.  Yikes. Now admittedly, the hospital where I was doing my residency had a fast food restaurant conveniently located right there in the cafeteria and my go-to: hamburgers and french fries.

But also I have a strong family history of significantly elevated cholesterol.  The doctor said I could lower it some and I should diet and exercise and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. But guess what? I eventually lowered my cholesterol to 156 without medication, and I’m going to tell you how you can do it too.

But first, let’s start at the beginning and go to mini medical school and learn exactly what is cholesterol. Technically we call it a lipid, which is sort of like a fat that circulates in your bloodstream. Structurally, these compounds make up parts of cell membranes and functionally they help regulate the transport across these membranes, so that’s good. Right? Well, yes, we do need cholesterol to help move and store energy, produce hormones, and absorb vitamins. But you know, too much of a good thing. We’ll get to that.

Lipids don’t dissolve in water, so they have to hitch a ride on proteins to travel through the blood, and when they get hitched, they change their name to lipoproteins. Now this is gonna sound familiar if you’ve ever had a lipid panel drawn.  HDL stands for high density lipoproteins and LDL stands for low density lipoproteins.  Where does it come from? Well, your body actually makes it in both the liver and small intestines. Then it’s stored in the liver where it’s converted to bile acids, so you can get rid of it.

Is it bad or good? Well, that depends. HDL cholesterol reduces inflammation, prevents blood clots, and helps transport oxygen. And your body makes all of it that you need all of it. But here’s the deal. Not only does your body make cholesterol, but we also eat it. Most of the cholesterol in the standard American diet comes from meat, eggs, cheese, and dairy products. Oh, well, who can afford eggs anyway?

But seriously, cholesterol is sneaky. Rather than announcing its presence, it just slips through your blood vessels undetected, but it leaves a calling card and we call it plaque. This buildup in the wall of the arteries can lead to hardening of the arteries and therefore cardiovascular disease.

Think about it. If a plaque gets big enough, it can compromise blood flow and cause a heart attack or stroke. And this can also happen with smaller plaques when a piece breaks off. I told you cholesterol is sneaky. Most people who have high cholesterol have no symptoms. We call it hyperlipidemia, and that’s why you need to know your numbers and you need to know what they mean. 

I guess all those burgers weren’t helping me have healthy blood vessels when I was in my twenties.  But that’s not the whole story. We could go to mini medical school and learn the difference between HDL and LDL cholesterol, or we could just call them good cop, bad cop. Because that kind of sums it up. The reason LDL cholesterol is the bad cop is because it causes a fatty buildup inside the arteries and that impairs blood flow and puts you at increased risk of a heart attack or stroke.

You’ve seen those detective shows where they lock someone in an interrogation room and they just yell at ’em. No, it’s not exactly the same, but I bet you’ll remember now that LDL the bad cop cholesterol can make you have a heart attack. Now the good cop HDL cholesterol can actually lower your risk of heart disease and stroke.

You know, it’s the reassuring I’ll be your friend cop. Picture the scene, bad cop is giving the suspect a really hard time and good cop comes in and sends the bad cop away.   Stick with me here. HDL, good cholesterol carries at least a little bit of the LDL or bad cholesterol out of the arteries where it causes damage and into the liver where it can be broken down and eliminated.

So speaking in very general terms, you want your HDL cholesterol to be high and your LDL cholesterol to be low. We’ll get to specific numbers in a sec. I do want to mention triglycerides. They are not the same thing as cholesterol, but they hang out together because you know, birds of a feather… When you have a lipid panel done, they often measure the whole flock, total cholesterol, HDL cholesterol, LDL, cholesterol and triglycerides.

You’ve also probably heard about the ratio and yes, it’s very important, but whose side are these triglycerides on anyway? Well, they’re the most common type of FAT in the body. And like all things in our bodies, they have a purpose and that is to store excess energy from your diet. And yeah, that’s the problem.

Most of us have plenty of excess in our diet.  Hamburgers and french fries, or as Steve Martin said in the old Pink Panther movie, “Am barger.” If you don’t know that scene and that didn’t make you laugh, please google it and watch a clip.

 The bottom line is that high triglycerides combined with high LDL means fatty buildup in the walls of the arteries, and that increases the risk of heart attack and stroke. Okay, I hope you’re convinced that Steve Martin is hysterical and you need to see the clip from the Pink Panther, and you need to get your cholesterol checked. 

You are convinced, right? Don’t believe me. The American Heart Association recommends that if you are over the age of 20, you should have your cholesterol checked and depending on your risk factors, every four to six years after that, until you get older and have an increased risk of. every dang thing.

So now you’ve had your blood drawn and the doctor calls you with your results.  No. Oh yeah. Your results are now on the portal and you want to know what they mean.  I do have to tell you that context matters and you really should discuss the results with your doctor, but if you don’t hear from them, I’ll give you some generalities for people who do not already have cardiovascular issues, and by the way, you should fast for at least 12 hours before you go to the lab and get this. You shouldn’t have the test done if you’re sick or stressed. Stress affects cholesterol too. It wreaks havoc on your body in so many ways. First of all, people who are stressed often smoke more, drink more, sleep less, exercise less socially isolate and eat more junk. So there’s that, but also our old friend Cortisol, the stress hormone also plays a role. Cortisol is our body’s way of preparing us to physically respond to a threat. So it triggers the release of glucose and fatty acids into the bloodstream and muscles. So energy is available for slaying dragons   threatening our safety, and that’s a good thing when there are dragons pulling up in your driveway. Not so much if you live in a constant state of stress. Of course, if you have prolonged stress, you’ll have to go ahead and surrender that vein in your arm and get your lipids checked anyway, because when it comes to your numbers, you need to know.

So let’s get to those numbers. Total cholesterol should be below 200 milligrams per deciliter, and if it’s between 201 and 239, that’s considered borderline high cholesterol, and if it’s above 240, that’s just plain over the limit. Now, LDL cholesterol should be below 130 or even much lower than that if you are at risk of heart attack or stroke, HDL should ideally be above 60 and triglycerides below 150.

Any numbers outside of these parameters should be taken seriously because you have a higher risk of cardiovascular disease, especially if you continue to eat ham ba burgers.  Now, let’s say you do hear from your doctor’s office. You know, the nurse calls and says you either need to take a cholesterol lowering medication like a statin or that you need to eat a low cholesterol diet and exercise. Thank you very much. But shouldn’t we have a more detailed conversation about this result?  You bet. Your cholesterol is just one group of numbers. It’s not the whole picture. Your risk of heart disease is impacted by other factors like smoking, high blood pressure, your family history, your age, and yes, of course your diet.

And we are going to talk about a heart healthy diet in a bit. But first, let’s discuss that conversation you’re having with the nurse who calls from the doctor’s office and said, we’ve sent in a prescription for a statin.  Hold up a minute. This literally happened to me last year. My total cholesterol was 202, a whopping two points above the normal range, and my ratio of good cholesterol to bad cholesterol was excellent.

So I questioned this recommendation,  but what are the recommendations? Remember, I am board certified in lifestyle medicine, which is a subspecialty of conventional medicine. So we’re not opposed to treatment with medication when indicated, but before we go firing off prescriptions, we should at least examine the indications.

If your cholesterol is abnormal, and I would argue that mine is not thanks to some serious changes in my lifestyle and not my inherited tendencies, then you may need a cholesterol medication. Depending on your age and the likelihood of developing heart disease, but if you’re not at risk for heart disease, then you might not need a medication, even if your cholesterol is high. At least not for now, because here’s the deal, the number of your years only increases and age is a risk factor for heart disease, which by the way, is the number one killer of Americans. So let’s say you are at risk and your cholesterol is high and your doctor wants you to take a medication quick pharmacology review.

These medications can help the body make less cholesterol, which is one source. They can block the absorption of cholesterol from food, which is another source, and on top of that, they can actually help your body get rid of cholesterol faster. Sounds great. Right, and it can be, you should probably take medication if you have known heart disease, especially if you’ve actually had a heart attack or stroke.

And because diabetes is such a big risk factor for cardiovascular disease, you may need to take a medication if you have type two diabetes, even if your cholesterol isn’t high. And that’s to prevent heart disease. Of course, you need to discuss all of this with your personal healthcare provider, and I recommend following their advice after you’ve had a conversation about options and risk. The most commonly prescribed class of medications are statins, but there are others.

But can you lower your cholesterol without medications? I’m living proof  exercise helps raise your good cholesterol and lower your bad cholesterol, but you gotta do it regularly. Ideally, 30 minutes, five days a week, or if you wanna step it up a notch, 20 minutes of vigorous exercise three times a week.

And remember, vigorous means you cannot have a conversation if you’re talking, you are not exercising vigorously. You gotta be huffing and puffing to reach this level. So if you decide to stick with moderate, you can talk, but you can’t sing. But here’s the beauty of exercising – every little step in the right direction has immediate benefits, so you can start small and see results.

Resistance training is great to build muscle strength and burn energy. You know, bands, weights, pushups, things like that. Or maybe you could start walking briskly. Or go to the gym and join a class for built-in accountability and social connections.  

Let me give you a startling fact.  People who have a heart attack are four times more likely to die within three years if they don’t have social connections. The older you get, the stronger the association. And if you’re wondering how in the world that could be, it turns out the key is caring about others. When you value people in your life and you know they value you, you are more likely to make healthier choices like not smoking and positive relationships help manage stress and lower inflammation, and that damages blood vessels and also contributes to heart disease. 

Sleep matters too. As part of an overall healthy lifestyle, you should aim for seven to nine hours per night and less than six hours a night is associated with higher cholesterol levels.  In the past, medical literature reported a positive association between drinking a glass of red wine and heart health. Turns out that’s probably not true and moderate to heavy drinking  unquestionably raises your risk for heart disease. You know, if your liver’s working overtime to get rid of alcohol, it’s much less effective in dealing with cholesterol.

Now, your Dr. may not have mentioned any of this except diet and exercise. So let’s park there for a minute. A healthy weight is often associated with better numbers, but that isn’t always true. Genetics also plays a big role, but whether you’re at an ideal weight or overweight, changing your diet can have a huge impact on your cholesterol.

In fact, depending on how much change you’re willing to make, I would say that you can lower your cholesterol to a healthy level. And if you’re interested in making healthy habit changes, you might want to go to my website Healthy Looks Great on you.com and sign up for Kickstart to Better Health. And for sure, you’re going to want to stay tuned for an upcoming interview I have on Habit Change. Subscribe to this podcast. There’s a link in the show notes or go to the website Healthy looks great on you.com.

Either way, you should listen to your doctor. And make sure they listen to you as well. You may need medication to lower your cholesterol, and you may need to make lifestyle changes, especially if your numbers are going up in the wrong direction, even a little.

But if you’re motivated to do it without medications, let me harp on your diet. Hear me when I say this. When it comes to cholesterol or weight loss, diet matters more than exercise. Of course you should do both, but if you don’t change your diet, exercise may not have the impact you’re looking for. If you want to reduce the intake of cholesterol, stay away from trans fats, sometimes referred to as partially hydrogenated oils. They’ve basically been outlawed and banned anyway, but sometimes these transitions take some time to implement. Just make sure packaged pastries and things like margarine, which you shouldn’t be eating anyway, don’t have them. Avoid foods that are high in any kind of saturated fat.  

Here’s my top five list of foods that are high in cholesterol. Maybe we can find some hints about why my cholesterol was high eating in that fast food restaurant every day.

Number one is red meat, beef, pork,  and especially processed meats like bacon, sausage, and hot dogs. Ah, remember what those hamburgers did to my cholesterol numbers.

Number two is fried foods, and yes, I ordered french fries with my burgers. And fried foods are particularly bad when certain oils are used.

Number three is sugar sweetened beverages and good grief. I drank a Coke with my burger and fries. No wonder my numbers were bad.

Number four is sweets, pastries, pies, cakes, cookies, and ice cream. Yep. I probably ate that too.

Number five is dairy, especially whole milk, cream, butter, and unfortunately cheese, which I also put on my burger. Good grief. I was daring my cholesterol to be high with all the foods from the naughty list.

So what am I doing now? Well, I’m glad you asked. Here’s a fun fact.  You really don’t find cholesterol in plants. So eat plants, eat a lot of plants, eat different plants, eat plants that have different colors. Usually the darker, brighter the color, the more nutrients it has.

Cholesterol’s only found in processed foods, meat and dairy. But you wanna know what’s only found in plants. Fiber and a high fiber diet is so important in lowering your cholesterol. It creates a healthy gut microbiome. Think of it like a sponge too, that soaks up cholesterol out of your bloodstream and helps remove it.

Things like unprocessed oatmeal, whole wheat bread, whole grain brown rice, and popcorn. Also, beans, broccoli, sweet potatoes, apples, pears, oranges, grapes, all kinds of berries and nuts are on the good list. You didn’t just ask me about eggs, did you? Goodness, that’s a whole other conversation. And so is the other player in this conversation, triglycerides. But I will tell you that if you have high LDL cholesterol, you should at least limit your consumption of eggs.

And the bottom line is that HDL cholesterol is your friend. It can help protect you from cardiovascular disease. And LDL Cholesterol levels should be low for heart health. That’s easy to remember. H stands for high. L stands for low, and in some cases your doctor will want it really, really low. Below 70. So is cholesterol good or bad? The answer is yes. Cholesterol helps with cell membrane transport, absorption of vitamins, brain function, hormone production. But don’t get the wrong idea. LDL cholesterol causes fatty buildup in the arteries, and that can be a huge threat to your health. So lower your bad cholesterol with medications if you need it, but definitely lower it with lifestyle changes because lower LDL is better for your health and healthy. Looks great on you.   

The information contained in this podcast is for educational purposes only and is not considered to be a substitute for medical advice. You should continue to follow up with your physician or health care provider and take medication as prescribed. Though the information in this podcast is evidence based, new research may develop and recommendations may change 

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Are you laying in bed exhausted but wide awake? Maybe it’s pain racing thoughts or waking up gasping for air. Your insomnia may be due to an underlying medical condition more than stress  or bad sleep habits. Today we will look at four medical conditions that can disrupt your sleep.   I’m Dr.Vickie Petz Kasper.

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 This is episode 1 62. Is your health keeping you awake? Four medical conditions that cause insomnia.  Not sleeping is frustrating not only during the long nights, but also dragging through the day without the mental clarity you need. And maybe you know why you can’t sleep, or maybe you’re trying to treat the symptoms without addressing the root cause.

Today we’re going to look at four medical conditions that keep you from getting the rest you need. Because if you can identify the cause, you can get started on a path to better sleep. So let’s pull back the covers and see what wakes you up. Number one is ouch. Chronic pain can keep you tossing and turning low back pain, shoulder pain, arthritis, fibromyalgia.

All of these things can cause discomfort, which makes it hard to fall asleep and stay asleep. Pain and sleep have what we call a bidirectional relationship. Think of it like a two-way street. Pain makes it harder to sleep and poor sleep makes pain worse. Climbing under the covers can be uncomfortable and that can aggravate pain.

Plus, even if you can get to sleep, pain can tap you on the shoulder or anywhere else for that matter and wake you up. This leads to fragmented sleep when what you need is deep restorative sleep, which is crucial for healing and less deep sleep. Makes your pain threshold go way down. So that you’re more sensitive to pain.

On top of that, pain is frustrating and insomnia is maddening, and when they get in bed together, it can heighten anxiety, which triggers alertness and all of that makes it harder to drift off to dreamland.  Arthritis is not a good bed partner. Inflammation and stiffness tend to get worse when you’re inactive.

That’s why you feel like the tin man who needs a shot of oil to get moving in the morning. Non-restorative sleep latches onto fibromyalgia too, and it doesn’t let go. Sleeping position can worsen back pain, shoulder pain, and carpal tunnel syndrome. So optimize your sleep position for better sleep. If you have arthritis, use supportive pillows to reduce any pressure on joints. If you have nerve pain like carpal tunnel syndrome, try sleeping in a brace to immobilize your wrist. And if you have back pain, put a pillow under your knees or sleep on your side with a pillow between your legs and before you go to bed, try taking a warm bath or using a heating pad because that can relax your muscles and help with stiffness. Cold packs can be even better at reducing inflammation and also try gentle stretching exercises or massage before bed to relieve the tension in those muscles. But don’t do a strenuous workout that will just increase your cortisol levels and keep you from sleeping. 

The most important thing is to always address the root cause. If you are having unexplained pain, you need to work with your doctor to manage your condition.  

Number two is gastroesophageal reflux disease. Do you wake up with heartburn or maybe even a sore throat? It might be your stomach acid, keeping you awake.

Acid reflux symptoms can worsen during the night disrupting sleep.  Here’s what happens. Many people experience heartburn, regurgitation, and just discomfort when laying down, and that makes it difficult to fall asleep or stay asleep. The reason is that gravity keeps stomach acid down during the day, but then when you lay down flat, that acid easily flows back up into the esophagus. This can lead to a burning sensation or an irritation in the throat, or even coughing and choking. Many people with gastroesophageal reflux experience brief wakenings throughout the night, even though they may not realize it, it often occurs during REM sleep, which is that mind restoring deep sleep. 

And acid irritation can stimulate the throat and the lungs, which can cause coughing, wheezing, or a sensation of mucus buildup that makes it harder to breathe comfortably and stay asleep. Years ago, I was misdiagnosed with asthma when what I really had was severe reflux because I was on prednisone, all that acid would go down into my lungs and I would wake up sputtering and coughing.

But it wasn’t asthma. It was a spasm of my larynx, which is where your airway closes off for a brief period of time, and that’s not pleasant. 

It can also irritate the vocal cords causing hoarseness or even a sour taste in the mouth.

Some people just have chronic GERD. Some people have a hiatal hernia. Pregnancy certainly makes it worse and so does obesity,  so here are some suggestions. First of all, sleep on your left side. This keeps the stomach in a position that’s lower than the esophagus, and so that kind of helps manage the reflux just by using gravity. 

More effective than that is to elevate your head. You can either use a wedge pillow or just put some bricks under the headboard of your bed to raise it by a few inches,   and especially avoid late night eating. Don’t eat within two to three hours before your bedtime and avoid large meals, spicy foods, citrus, alcohol, caffeine, and fatty foods before bed.

And if this is something that only bothers you occasionally, it’s certainly fine to take an over the counter antacid, but this is also a condition that needs to be evaluated by a healthcare provider to make sure nothing else is going on.  

 Reflux disease can be confused with sleep apnea as well. Sleep apnea is a serious medical condition. It’s usually characterized by loud snoring or waking up choking. As you can see, that could be confused with gastroesophageal reflux disease, but  it can also be periods of time where you don’t breathe at all, and what happens is your oxygen levels go down and that affects all of your organs, especially your brain and your heart. It can put you at risk for heart disease, high blood pressure, stroke, and dementia. 

It’s more common in men than women, but women certainly can get it and they especially get it after menopause . The soft palate gets a little more lax. It’s more common in people who are overweight, but that does not always hold true. If you are having any symptoms of obstructive sleep apnea, it’s important to see your healthcare provider and have a sleep study if you are in fact doing what we call desaturating, meaning that those oxygen levels are going down. You need an official sleep study to see if you would benefit from an implantable device or a CPAP machine. And if you are diagnosed with sleep apnea and you’re overweight, losing weight can certainly help, as well as avoiding anything sedating like alcohol, sleeping pills, or antihistamines. 

There are lots of medical conditions that can cause you to not sleep.  Things like thyroid disease, diabetes, heart failure, COPD. But today I want to talk a little bit about mental health conditions like anxiety and depression, because your mind isn’t the only thing affected. Your sleep is too. 

You see, mental health and sleep are deeply connected. Poor sleep can worsen mental health. While mental health disorders make it harder to sleep, it’s a vicious cycle, and understanding the connection is the first step toward breaking it.

So let’s go to mini medical school for just a moment and see how mental disorders can affect sleep. You see, chronic stress increases the levels of cortisol and what we call adrenaline, and that makes it harder for your body to wind down  and cortisol levels that are high in the evening can actually interfere with melatonin production, which is the sleep hormone, so that can delay sleep onset. On top of that, mental health conditions can reduce deep sleep, which is that slow wave sleep, and it also can reduce REM sleep, which is when you’re dreaming, that can lead to fragmented and non-restorative sleep.  The problem with depression is a lot of times people go into REM sleep too quickly and they have vivid dreams or nightmares. 

One of the characteristic findings of depression is people who wake up super early in the morning and can’t go back to sleep. Then you can start associating the bed with stress, and that just makes insomnia worse over time. The same with anxiety.  Worrying and overthinking at night can lead to difficulty falling asleep.  It can also make your muscles tense, make your heart race, and make you feel like you’re having a panic attack. 

People with a DHD often struggle with delayed sleep on set too. They just stay up half the night even though they’re exhausted, because a lot of times their brains can’t make that transition from awake to asleep, and they’re more prone to restless sleep, frequent waking, and grogginess in the morning.

So what do you do about it? 

While overall lifestyle is super important for treating ADHD, depression and anxiety, it’s also very important to be under the care of a healthcare provider and a mental health care provider. Counseling can be very effective for dealing with anxiety and depression. 

But if your symptoms are less serious and you just have spinning thoughts that won’t stop, the main thing I suggest is learn to relax your body and your mind. We have to put our minds in neutral. And I think a lot of us go through the whole day, just go, go, go, go, go, and then we lay down at night, and our brains won’t turn off because they don’t ever turn off. I’m going to give you my very best tip on how to shut down your mind – journaling. I always say it’s a cheap psychiatrist.  And that’s just one simple step you can take to try to shut off your mind. But I heard a sleep specialist say one time that relying on sleep tips is kind of like asking a nutritionist, “How can I eat heart healthy?” And they say, “Eat more broccoli.” It’s a lot more complicated than that, and that’s why I created a comprehensive online digital course called Unlock the Secret to Sleep Your Personalized Sleep Solution.

I hope you won’t miss the opportunity to enroll in this course. It’s only available until March 12th, 2025.

The course will be released on March 17th. And I also have a FREE LIVE SLEEP MASTERCLASS happening tomorrow morning at eight o’clock. It’s free, but registration is required. There’s a link in the show notes or you can just go to healthy looks great on you.com and look for “Six Surprising Reasons You’re Tossing and Turning.” We’ll talk about those six reasons and what you can do about it.

A lot of people have had insomnia for such a long period of time that they’ve lost hope that anything can help them sleep better, and it’s just not true. You can sleep better. Are there magic wands? No. It takes some work, but I can help you every step of the way. 

I want to leave you with one tip. Don’t watch the clock. If you wake up during the night, resist the urge to pick up your phone and see what time it is. If you have an alarm set, you can rest easy. You’re not going to oversleep, and you don’t need to know what time it is. All that does is expose your brain to blue light, which suppresses melatonin and creates anxiety about what time it is and about not sleeping and that only leads to further insomnia. So don’t watch the clock. That’s my number one piece of advice today. I have lots more I can tell you in UNLOCK THE SECRET TO SLEEP – Your Personal Sleep Solution. I sure hope you’ll enroll today before this opportunity is gone  because when you sleep better, your health is better and healthy, looks great on you.

 The information contained in this podcast is for educational purposes only and is not considered to be a substitute for medical advice. You should continue to follow up with your physician or health care provider and take medication as prescribed. Though the information in this podcast is evidence based, new research may develop and recommendations may change.

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